Women’s Weight - A National Obsession

by michael
February 6 2009

jessica-simpsonDeficiency is mourned in our financial markets, but idealized in our women’s bodies. Popular media goes into a frenzy when a female celebrity puts on a few pounds. This week, for example, the New York Post described singer Jessica Simpson as a “HUGE success,” “a BIG star,” and a “FAT lady” who sings. The words “huge,” “big,” and “fat” were emphasized in the article’s title.

Why is media obsessed with women’s weight; why has body weight become an occasion to deride and mock capable women? What message does this send to young women who have grown up with an unprecedented sense of equality with men? “Be anything you want, but be thin.” Why is being thin so important?

In the 1950s and before, the popular feminine ideal was curvy and voluptuous. Marilyn Monroe and Betty Davis were hardly stick figures. But Twiggy, the British fashion model who emerged in the early 1960s, was elongated and “twig-like.” Interestingly she became the new fashion ideal, just as Betty Freidan’s Feminine Mystique became widely known and women started questioning their restricted role in society.

This new direction became a double-edged sword for women who aspired to become overly thin. As they shed the voluptuous curves of the past, women became free to pursue more masculine activities and careers. They assumed these new roles with concern about being full-bodied, strong women, and many sought to appear like gangly boys: weaker than men, sometimes emaciated and unhealthy. Debilitating new diseases like anorexia and bulimia struck millions.

Weight has become a criteria by which women judge themselves and are judged publicly. Finally there’s an outcry.

It is true that being overweight poses health problems, for women and men. But many of the women undermined in media for being “fat” actually have healthy and appropriate body weights. The next time a newspaper or magazine goes on about a woman’s figure, see it for the sexism that it is. We still have along way to go.

6 Comments leave one →
2009 February 6
liana permalink

For me, the issue is more about a woman using her body - the same way the media does.

I dont particularly feel sorry for Jessica Simpson, she used her body to get somewhere, she used the 1st stage aspect of her feminine energy of ‘Look at Me’, and it made her millions.

If she wants to use and abuse her own body at one end of the spectrum, why does she not accept the responsibility of her choice and realise that there will be just as much attention at the other end. In actual fact she may not even care, if the media coverage is good for her career.

She’s not always received good attention remember ‘the chicken of the sea’ incident. Where she was quite happy playing the blond bimbo, where were the feminists then? What did they say when she was acting out perhaps another not so much stereotype of the feminine.

Most of the celebrities probably consider any media whether it be good or bad, as bringing attention to themselves and then music gets sold, or another multi-million dollar deal is struck.

Remember Kirsty Alley who had the show about her being fat, she lost the gig when she wasn’t as large.

The issue isn’t whether a body is overweight or not, or whether that is healthy or not.

The issue is that we use the feminine body as an object that helps to sell the most product off the shelf.

Jessica Simpson used her body, she actually abused her body herself to get somewhere albeit unknowingly.

To wade into this issue as a ‘feminist’ might, I dont think will solve any problem, because it is just two opposites both saying ‘they are right’.

Liana

2009 February 6
Martha permalink

Just back from the movie HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. A guy cheats on his skinny wife who doesn’t fuck him with a voluptuous woman who will.

2009 February 7
Anonymous permalink

Miss Liana, are you kidding me??? Your argument seems vindictive and in the dark realm of when women get raped, and then get blamed for bringing it on by dressing provocatively.

In rape crisis counseling, the first thing they tell women is, “It’s not your fault!”

I don’t quite understand what you mean by “she abused her body”. Just because a woman chooses to present her body a certain way to get attention doesn’t call for a judgment as harsh at yours.

The last thing we want is to go back to times where conservative rules and restrictions and codes of conduct and propriety were IMPOSED on women so that they can conform to ONE STANDARD. Embrace it all. All sorts of women!

I don’t particularly care much for Jessica Simpson either, but the extensive coverage and pressure the media has put on the sole factor of her weight gain, (or weight loss, or looks on her and any other female celebrity, remember Jennifer Love Hewitt) is undeniably translating into more pressure for the rest of women in society on material looks.

Sure, go ahead and call her out for the unintelligent things she says! I couldn’t agree more with that. But to place judgment purely based on her looks, what kind of values are we promoting to young women?

2009 February 7
Martha permalink

Been thinking lately about “victims” and I am at a place where I feel we are always at choice. I know in my own life, I’ve attracted whatever has come to me, dark and light.

2009 February 10
liana permalink

Hi Anonymous,

Thank you for your wonderful response, I certainly feel your passion in what you wrote.

I guess I would have to say up front that I am not a feminist. That may or may not help you with what I wrote. I don’t want to be the best man I can be. Which is what the feminist movement seems to given women the freedom to do.

For me, I have taken responsibility for the aspect of me that needs attention from men or anyone else for that matter.

There is a part in most women that doubts they are truly beautiful and lovable. And when this part is active in a woman she will do anything to be seen or loved even shallowly. Some men will use this doubt for his own benefit. She may use her own body to get ahead in life.

(And the economic reality that we live in is still very shallow masculine unfortunately. A woman will probably make more money if she uses her body, or allows someone else too use it - which is disgusting.)

I believe all women need to be accountable for that part of them that runs amok, the part of them that doubts that they be beautiful and betrays their heart, body and their deepest truth. This part of her that sells herself and abuses her heart based on social conditioning, that many aren’t truly aware of - it is insidious, and still very prevalent.

Cosmetic companies use it all the time, you’ll be more radiant (beautiful) if you use their product. Weight reduction companies, clothing retailers rely on this doubt for many of their impulse sales, for a shallow quick fix.

What would happen in society for example, if women knew about this part of themselves and then when it came to making decisions they made sure they were in a place which was emotionally, mentally and physically grounded and she knew that she was absolutely gorgeous and loved. And she made her decisions from that place rather than the place of doubt that can be manipulated by someone else.

Jessica engaged with the media in the first instance and used her beautiful looks to get attention – to further her career. She engaged in a mutually beneficial act between her and the media, to get herself noticed and to get famous. In that agreement, she gave permission to have her looks manipulated to sell papers and to promote her career. Her great singing voice shouldn’t be judged by how she looks. But she used her looks, and she got into bed with a dog.

And that dog has been known for over ten years now. Look at how it hounded Princess Diana, Fergie The Duchess of York, Rosanne Arnold and Kirsty Ally. Was Jessica naïve enough to not know what she was getting herself into. Perhaps at 15 or 16 she didn’t have a clue, but just stars in her eyes and an innocent heart. Then maybe the people around here, who were guiding her were the ones to betray her, and they were happy ‘to use her good looks to get ahead’.

The media will change it’s tune when this type of coverage doesn’t sell papers, until then we are stuck with the lowest common denominator, which is ‘sex sells’.

And I guess I don’t believe that Jessica, is a victim or needs to be rescued, I feel she is a smart cookie that knows the hound she is lying with.

As far as young women are concerned, I hope that we find a way to speak to them about how society is at present, and how it will still unfortunately want to take advantage. I hope we find a way to truly define what is feminine for each of us as women, and then to demonstrate it whole-heartedly, so that our matriarchal lineage will be healed in all directions. Our grandmothers, mothers, sisters, daughters and nieces will no longer defined by what man sees as being ‘the feminine’, or even what our own internal masculine thinks is feminine.

I dont know if any of this helps.

Liana

2009 February 10
seaheart permalink

we all use our bodies to get somewhere in life…..our bodies are our vehicles…whether we work as cleaners, doctors, artists or actress, we are in our bodies.
they carry us and in our culture, most of us have choice to do with our bodies what we will.
attitude and intention…..womens weight is a red herring of western culture ( just another one)…
god forbid we focus on real issues, like child abuse, childhood obesity, slavery, drug abuse, war, religion etc etc….its like the women who circumsize their own daughters….brain washed by generations of paternal rule, so here we are, judging ourselves and our sisters…to keep up the distraction…..
‘love one another….its as simple and difficult as that….there is no other way’..michael luenig

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