There is No Such Thing as “Too Much Appreciation”

There is a serious lack of appreciation in the world. Most of us have forgotten how to be thankful for the small things. We mistakenly believe that, especially for things we have labeled as “it our our right or it is what is due us,” there is no need for thanks or appreciation.

Look at the marriages and relationships that are falling apart, and you will find that there is a great lack of showing appreciation and thanks. Small things are taken for granted. Slowly, but surely, the relationship is falling apart not because there is a lack of love but because there is a lack of appreciation and gratitude.

Because of what society has taught us we label being appreciative as a sign of being sentimental, “corny,” “mushy,” and even at times unnecessary. But can we really “over thank” someone? Is there anybody in the world who doesn’t appreciate being appreciated? Or are we just too full of ourselves to think otherwise? Have we forgotten that before we can be appreciated, we need to first appreciate?

No. We can never appreciate too much. Appreciation is gratitude in action. Active gratitude is one of the most powerful ways to show how much we truly love and care for someone. Authentic love cannot exist or survive without active gratitude.