http://enlightenedintimacy.com/blog/dating/the-first-date.html The Relationship Revolution Begins Here Thu, 29 Jul 2010 11:25:23 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 http://enlightenedintimacy.com/blog/dating/the-first-date.html/comment-page-1#comment-201 Sirus Fri, 15 May 2009 04:39:17 +0000 http://enlightenedintimacy.com/blog/?p=1032#comment-201 That's fine if it happens from time to time. But if its a struggle just to get together for coffee and months have gone by then a man would have to think in order to save his sanity that the situation is a waste of time. If someone is interested they will make it priority though things come up....if things have been coming up again and again and again then that is just saying that she believes organizing her stuff and washing her hair green is more interesting to her ! If she is continously acting like the possiblity of dating a man is a source of pain to avoid instead of potential joy and enrichment of her life...then why be bothered with the drama ? Life is too short..connect with people who want to connect and therefore will make the time because they are drawn to the joy of the possiblity of making a connection. Instead of someone who acts like taking care of accounts recieveable all night long would be more enjoyable then dating a particular man. That’s fine if it happens from time to time. But if its a struggle just to get together for coffee and months have gone by then a man would have to think in order to save his sanity that the situation is a waste of time. If someone is interested they will make it priority though things come up….if things have been coming up again and again and again then that is just saying that she believes organizing her stuff and washing her hair green is more interesting to her ! If she is continously acting like the possiblity of dating a man is a source of pain to avoid instead of potential joy and enrichment of her life…then why be bothered with the drama ? Life is too short..connect with people who want to connect and therefore will make the time because they are drawn to the joy of the possiblity of making a connection. Instead of someone who acts like taking care of accounts recieveable all night long would be more enjoyable then dating a particular man.

]]> http://enlightenedintimacy.com/blog/dating/the-first-date.html/comment-page-1#comment-200 Sirus Fri, 15 May 2009 04:35:08 +0000 http://enlightenedintimacy.com/blog/?p=1032#comment-200 That's fine if it happens from time to time. But if its a struggle just to get together for coffee and months have gone by then a man would have to think in order to save his sanity that the situation is a waste of time. If someone is interested they will make it priority though things come up....if things have been coming up again and again and again then that is just saying that she believes organizing her stuff and washing her hair green is more interesting to her ! That’s fine if it happens from time to time. But if its a struggle just to get together for coffee and months have gone by then a man would have to think in order to save his sanity that the situation is a waste of time. If someone is interested they will make it priority though things come up….if things have been coming up again and again and again then that is just saying that she believes organizing her stuff and washing her hair green is more interesting to her !

]]> http://enlightenedintimacy.com/blog/dating/the-first-date.html/comment-page-1#comment-198 tambra Tue, 28 Apr 2009 03:20:29 +0000 http://enlightenedintimacy.com/blog/?p=1032#comment-198 I've been in a similar situation and texted the guy sort of last minute that I couldn't get together...didn't reveal specifics to him because i hardly knew him...it was nothing personal, and I'm a busy gal! No reason to feel rejected! For me, I was still interested, but every girl is different...maybe she is shy with love because she doesn't want to be set up for rejection, for one reason or another...but whatever's meant to be will be :) I’ve been in a similar situation and texted the guy sort of last minute that I couldn’t get together…didn’t reveal specifics to him because i hardly knew him…it was nothing personal, and I’m a busy gal! No reason to feel rejected! For me, I was still interested, but every girl is different…maybe she is shy with love because she doesn’t want to be set up for rejection, for one reason or another…but whatever’s meant to be will be

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